Two Things You Shouldn’t Say…

…to a widow.

He didn’t die, you pulled the plug!

If you hadn’t pulled the plug, he wouldn’t have died.

I *think* they were said in a way that was meant to be joking.  I’d like to believe that.  Otherwise the person who said them to me inferred that *I* killed my husband.

Yeah.  You shouldn’t say those things to a widow.



3 thoughts on “Two Things You Shouldn’t Say…

  1. bbrown426 says:

    Joking or not, what they said is horrible.

  2. Bea says:

    What a disgusting thing to say! They should be ashamed of themselves.

  3. Janice says:

    Jane, for the rest of your life, you will periodically be subjected to these ridiculous, thoughtless, petty comments from people who DFGI (Don’t F*****g Get It) … and likely never will. Stupid people say stupid things … and likely don’t even have the intelligence to recognize how toxic such comments are. Just shake your head, and walk away … they don’t deserve a response. Hugs!

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