There have been big changes in my life recently.

I’ve got a new Love, he’s amazing, he’s incredible, we’re perfect on so many levels its scary.

He brings joy to my life.

I slow him down, he speeds me up, we complement and balance each other well.

Today… he moved in.  Fully. Completely.  All his stuff here.  And he’s here.

There’s a light sabre in my house.

A storm trooper helmet.

A whole lotta New England Patriots swag.

Clothes and stuff that aren’t mine.

It… feels weird and awesome at the same time.  Very much a “hey this is it. we’re TOGETHER” moment walking in the door and seeing his stuff.

Before, there was a transience to the relationship.  He was here, but essentially living out of a suitcase.  He was wearing the same clothes for 4 months.

It felt… however much we talked about a future, that there was an option to go back.

Now there’s not.

He’s here.  And I have a future with him.

He loves me, I love him, and he respects and honours the love I have for Mark.

I am amazed at how my life has changed…




4 thoughts on “Changes

  1. patricepdx says:

    Wonderful! Congrats to you both!!

  2. martha tenderere says:

    Great! Be blessed

  3. Jen Lawson says:

    I’ve been following your blog for a while. I’m so happy to hear this! I’m so glad you’re happy!

  4. PW says:

    Been following your blog shortly after I lost my wife in Jan. 2013. I have related to so many things you’ve blogged about. And I have also recently decided to live with my 2nd chapter. It takes a special person to be with a widow(er) and I am very lucky to have found her. Life has thrown us some big changes but we are lucky to be able to move on and find happiness. Best to you both!

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